I question myself about why we give kindness and love sometimes without thinking if the person is deserving or not? I know love just happens, you just love someone, anyone because maybe it is a natural process of reaching out. But is it selfless most times, sometimes? Is it not always connected to something more deeper inside us? something we lack in ourselves maybe.

I imagine people who have not been loved, end up giving more of love (at least in some cases) because they want to experience what it is to receive love. And when we do not receive the double of what we gave, then there is bitterness, disappointment and frustration begins to set in. so then how do we love a person? Is there a right or a wrong way to love? Is there a right way and a wrong way to express kindness as well?